"In my last vision I was shown that if you refuse reproof and correction, choose your own way, and will not be disciplined, God has no further use for you in connection with His holy work. If you had commenced the work of setting your own soul right with the Lord you would have seen so great a work to be done for yourself that you would not have spent so much time over the supposed wrongs of Brother H, dwelling upon them behind his back. The work of the last thirty years should inspire confidence in the integrity of Brother H. “Honor to whom honor is due.” 4T 93.1"
Both passages emphasize the importance of accepting reproof and instruction. Proverbs 12:1 states the principle directly, while the EGW passage applies it to a specific situation, highlighting the consequences of rejecting correction.
There will be men and women who despise reproof and whose feelings will ever rise up against it. It is not pleasant to be told of our wrongs. In almost every case where reproof is necessary, there will be some who entirely overlook the fact that the Spirit of the Lord has been grieved and His cause reproached. These will pity those who deserved reproof, because personal feelings have been hurt. All this unsanctified sympathy places the sympathizers where they are sharers in the guilt of the one reproved. In nine cases out of ten if the one reproved had been left under a sense of his wrongs, he might have been helped to see them and thereby have been reformed. But meddlesome, unsanctified sympathizers place altogether a wrong construction upon the motives of the reprover and the nature of the reproof given, and by sympathizing with the one reproved lead him to feel that he has been really abused; and his feelings rise up in rebellion against the one who has only done his duty. Those who…
The EGW passage directly addresses the principle of hating reproof and its consequences, as stated in Proverbs 12:1. It expands on the idea by describing the reactions of those who hate reproof and the negative impact of unsanctified sympathy.
"When reproved by the prophet at Gilgal, Saul saw no great sin in the course he had pursued. He felt that he had been treated unjustly, and endeavored to vindicate his actions and offered excuses for his error. From that time he had little intercourse with the prophet. Samuel loved Saul as his own son, while Saul, bold and ardent in temper, had held the prophet in high regard; but he resented Samuel's rebuke, and thenceforth avoided him so far as possible. PP 627.2"
The EGW passage describes Saul's reaction to Samuel's rebuke, mirroring the principle in Proverbs 12:1 that hating reproof is foolish. The connection is a clear application of the proverb's principle.
"bearing a testimony of reproof for several who were using tobacco, also for Brother Ball, who had been strengthening the hands of our enemies by holding the visions up to ridicule, and publishing bitter things against us in the Crisis , of Boston, and in the Hope of Israel , a paper issued in Iowa. The meeting for the evening was appointed at Brother Farnsworth's. The church was present, and your father there requested Brother Ball to state his objections to the visions and give an opportunity to answer them. Thus the evening was spent. Brother Ball manifested much stiffness and opposition; he admitted himself satisfied upon some points, but held his position quite firmly. Brother Andrews and your father talked plainly, explaining matters which he had misunderstood, and condemning his unrighteous course toward the Sabbathkeeping Adventists. We all felt that we had done the best we could that day to weaken the forces of the enemy. Our meeting held until past ten. 1T 655.1"
Brother Ball's 'stiffness and opposition' to reproof in the EGW passage aligns with the Proverb's contrast between those who love instruction and those who hate reproof.
Balaam owed the preservation of his life to the poor animal that he had treated so cruelly. The man who claimed to be a prophet of the Lord, who declared that his eyes were open, and he saw the “vision of the Almighty,” was so blinded by covetousness and ambition that he could not discern the angel of God visible to his beast. “The god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not.” 2 Corinthians 4:4 . How many are thus blinded! They rush on in forbidden paths, transgressing the divine law, and cannot discern that God and His angels are against them. Like Balaam they are angry at those who would prevent their ruin. PP 442.4 Balaam had given evidence of the spirit that controlled him, by his treatment of his beast. “A righteous man regardeth the life of his beast: but the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel.” Proverbs 12:10 . Few realize as they should the sinfulness of abusing animals or leaving them to suffer from neglect. He who created man made the lower animals …
Ellen White directly references Proverbs 12:10 in this passage.
"The moral evils of a flesh diet are not less marked than are the physical ills. Flesh food is injurious to health, and whatever affects the body has a corresponding effect on the mind and the soul. Think of the cruelty to animals that meat eating involves, and its effect on those who inflict and those who behold it. How it destroys the tenderness with which we should regard these creatures of God! MH 315.2"
Both passages connect the treatment of animals with moral character. The EGW passage argues that meat eating involves cruelty and diminishes compassion, while Proverbs 12:10 contrasts the righteous person's care for animals with the cruelty of the wicked. This is a strong thematic parallel.
"Animals are often transported long distances and subjected to great suffering in reaching a market. Taken from the green pastures, and traveling for weary miles over the hot, dusty roads, or crowded into filthy cars, feverish and exhausted, often for many hours deprived of food and water, the poor creatures are driven to their death, that human beings may feast on the carcasses. MH 314.2"
Both passages highlight the importance of treating animals with compassion. The EGW passage describes the suffering of animals raised for meat, while Proverbs 12:10 contrasts the righteous person's care for animals with the cruelty of the wicked.
"What man with a human heart, who has ever cared for domestic animals, could look into their eyes, so full of confidence and affection, and willingly give them over to the butcher's knife? How could he devour their flesh as a sweet morsel? MH 316.1"
Both passages highlight the importance of showing compassion and care towards animals. The EGW quote expands on the idea of regarding the life of a beast, as mentioned in Proverbs.
"I saw the beneficial influence of outdoor labor upon those of feeble vitality and depressed circulation, especially upon women who have induced these conditions by too much confinement indoors. Their blood has become impure for want of fresh air and exercise. Instead of amusements to keep these persons indoors, care should be taken to provide outdoor attractions. I saw there should be connected with the Institute ample grounds, beautified with flowers and planted with vegetables and fruits. Here the feeble could find work, appropriate to their sex and condition, at suitable hours. These grounds should be under the care of an experienced gardener to direct all in a tasteful, orderly manner. 1T 562.2"
Both passages connect working the land with positive outcomes. Proverbs 12:11 contrasts it with following vain pursuits, while EGW highlights its health benefits. The connection is valid, though not a direct quote or explicit allusion.
"By fostering love for mere amusement, the reading of fiction creates a distaste for life's practical duties. Through its exciting, intoxicating power it is not infrequently a cause of both mental and physical disease. Many a miserable, neglected home, many a lifelong invalid, many an inmate of the insane asylum, has become such through the habit of novel reading. MH 446.1"
Proverbs 12:11 contrasts diligence in practical work with following vanity, leading to a lack of understanding. EGW connects novel reading with neglecting practical duties and leading to negative consequences. The connection is that both passages contrast a beneficial activity with a detrimental one.
"“And King Rehoboam took counsel with the old men that had stood before Solomon his father while he yet lived, saying, What counsel give ye me to return answer to this people? And they spake unto him, saying, If thou be kind to this people, and please them, and speak good words to them, they will be thy servants forever.” 2 Chronicles 10:3-7 . PK 89.2"
EGW directly quotes 2 Chronicles 10:3-7.
"The Lord had greatly honored Moses, and had wrought wonders by his hand; but the fact that he had been chosen to instruct others did not lead him to conclude that he himself needed no instruction. The chosen leader of Israel listened gladly to the suggestions of the godly priest of Midian, and adopted his plan as a wise arrangement. PP 301.1"
The EGW passage illustrates the principle of being open to counsel, even when in a position of authority, which aligns with the wisdom expressed in Proverbs 12:15.
"In your last two discussions you despised counsel and would not listen to God's servant, whose whole soul was devoted to the work. God in His providence provided you an adviser whose talents and influence entitled him to your respect and confidence, and it could in no way have injured your dignity to be guided by his experienced judgment. God's angels marked your self-sufficiency and with grief turned from you. He could not safely display His power in your behalf, for you would have taken the glory to yourself, and your future labors would have been of but little value. I saw, Brother F, that you should not, in your labors, lean upon your own judgment, which has so often led you astray. You should yield to the judgment of those of experience. Do not stand upon your own dignity and feel so self-sufficient that you cannot take the advice and counsel of experienced fellow laborers. 1T 626.2"
The EGW passage directly addresses the importance of heeding counsel and avoiding self-sufficiency, which is the core principle conveyed in Proverbs 12:15. The connection is clear and intentional.
Many lack wise management and economy. They do not weigh matters well, and move cautiously. Such should not trust to their own poor judgment, but should counsel with their brethren who have experience. But those who lack economy and good judgment are often unwilling to seek counsel. They generally think that they understand how to conduct their temporal business, and are unwilling to follow advice. They make bad moves, and suffer in consequence. Their brethren are grieved to see them suffer, and they help them out of difficulty. Their unwise management affects the church. It takes means from the treasury of God which should have been used to advance the cause of present truth. If these poor brethren take a humble course and are willing to be advised and counseled by their brethren, and are then brought into straitened places, the brethren should feel it a duty to cheerfully help them out of difficulty. But if they choose their own course, and rely upon their own judgment, they should b…
The EGW passage emphasizes the importance of heeding counsel and not relying solely on one's own judgment, which aligns directly with the wisdom expressed in Proverbs 12:15.
"independent of the counsel of their brethren. GW 486.2"
The EGW quote directly echoes the principle of Proverbs 12:15 regarding the importance of seeking counsel rather than relying solely on one's own judgment.
"Some who have but little experience, and are least qualified to teach the truth, are the last to ask advice and counsel of their experienced brethren. They put on the minister, and place themselves on a level with those of long and tried experience, and are not satisfied unless they can lead, thinking that because they are ministers, they know all that is worth knowing. Such preachers certainly lack a true knowledge of themselves. They do not possess becoming modesty and have altogether too high an opinion of their own abilities. Ministers of experience, who realize the sacredness of the work, and feel the weight of the cause upon them, are jealous of themselves. They consider it a privilege to advise with their brethren and are not offended if improvements are suggested in their plans of labor or in their manner of speaking. 1T 444.1"
EGW's statement directly reflects the principle in Proverbs 12:15 regarding the wisdom of seeking counsel and the foolishness of relying solely on one's own judgment. The EGW passage applies this principle specifically to young ministers who may overestimate their abilities.
"of God. Consult with your brethren upon whom God has seen fit to lay the burden of the work. Had you thus advised with those whose counsel you should have sought, you would not have committed so great an error, so sad a blunder, as you did in the case of E. God's cause was wounded and reproached in this case. Your wife thought she had light in this case; but her impressions were not of God, but of the enemy, because he saw that you could be affected in this direction. Your trusting so completely to your wife's judgment is contrary to heaven's arrangement. Satan has designed in this way to cut you off, in a great measure, from the influence of your fellow laborers and your brethren in general. 1T 709.1"
The EGW passage directly advises seeking counsel from others, which aligns with the wisdom principle in Proverbs 12:15 about heeding counsel.
"He has rejected the counsel and advice of his brethren, gone on in his own strength, followed his own will, and has rejected every means whereby he could be corrected. When he has been reproved, the manner or the person has not suited him, and the way for reform has been closed up. The Lord has not accepted his labors for some length of time. He has labored much more for his own interest than for the interest of the cause. 1T 228.1"
Both passages contrast the wisdom of heeding counsel with the foolishness of relying solely on one's own judgment. The EGW passage provides a specific example of someone exhibiting this foolishness.
"If there is any subject which should be carefully considered and in which the counsel of older and more experienced persons should be sought, it is the subject of marriage; if ever the Bible was needed as a counselor, if ever divine guidance should be sought in prayer, it is before taking a step that binds persons together for life. PP 175.4"
Both passages emphasize the importance of seeking counsel from others, especially in important decisions. The EGW passage specifically mentions marriage, while Proverbs 12:15 speaks generally about the wisdom of heeding counsel.
"Young men who are engaged in this work should not trust too much to their own abilities. They are inexperienced and should seek to learn wisdom from those who have had long experience in the work and who have had opportunities to study character. 3T 209.3"
Both passages highlight the importance of seeking counsel and wisdom from experienced individuals, rather than relying solely on one's own judgment.
"“There is that speaketh like the piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health.” Proverbs 12:18 . Ed 237.1 One of the characteristics that should be especially cherished and cultivated in every child is that self- forgetfulness which imparts to the life such an unconscious grace. Of all excellences of character this is one of the most beautiful, and for every true lifework it is one of the qualifications most essential. Ed 237.2"
Ellen White directly references Proverbs 12:18 in this passage.
"In one moment, by the hasty, passionate, careless tongue, may be wrought evil that a whole lifetime's repentance cannot undo. Oh, the hearts that are broken, the friends estranged, the lives wrecked, by the harsh, hasty words of those who might have brought help and healing! Ed 236.7"
The EGW passage directly echoes the sentiment of Proverbs 12:18 regarding the destructive power of words versus the healing power of wise speech. The connection is clear and meaningful.
"A glance, a word, even an intonation of the voice, may be vital with falsehood, sinking like a barbed arrow into some heart, inflicting an incurable wound. Thus a doubt, a reproach, may be cast upon one by whom God would accomplish a good work, and his influence is blighted, his usefulness destroyed. Among some species of animals, if one of their number is wounded and falls, he is at once set upon and torn in pieces by his fellows. The same cruel spirit is indulged by men and women who bear the name of Christians. They manifest a pharisaical zeal to stone others less guilty than themselves. There are some who point to others’ faults and failures to divert attention from their own, or to gain credit for great zeal for God and the church. 5T 59.1"
Both passages highlight the destructive power of words. Proverbs 12:18 uses the metaphor of a sword, while EGW uses the image of a barbed arrow. Both emphasize the pain and lasting damage caused by unkind speech.
"3. Still others have rebelled against the testimonies. Some of these have responded in a faultfinding spirit. Some have shown bitterness, anger, and wrath, and in return for my toil and pains in writing the testimonies they have turned upon us to injure us all they could; while others have held me for hours in personal interviews to pour into my ears and my aching heart their complaints, murmurings, and self-justifications, perhaps appealing to their own sympathies with weeping, and losing sight of their own faults and sins. The influence of these things has been terrible upon me and has sometimes driven me nearly to distraction. That which has followed from the conduct of these unconsecrated, unthankful persons has cost me more suffering and has worn upon my courage and health ten times more than all the toil of writing the testimonies. 1T 631.1"
The proverb speaks of words that pierce like a sword, while the EGW passage describes the hurtful actions and words of those who opposed her. The connection lies in the damaging effect of negative communication, although the proverb is more general, and the EGW passage is specific to her experience.
"The Lord had shown me the character and final come-out of that party; that His frown was upon those connected with that paper, and His hand was against them. And although they might appear to prosper for a time, and some honest ones be deceived, yet truth would eventually triumph, and every honest soul would break away from the deception which had held him, and come out clear from the influence of those wicked men; as God's hand was against them, they must go down. 1T 96.1"
The EGW passage speaks of truth eventually triumphing over deception, and the wicked ultimately failing. Proverbs 12:19 makes a similar point about the enduring nature of truth versus the fleeting nature of lies. The thematic parallel is strong and direct.
"The Lord had shown me the character and final come-out of the party; that His frown was upon those connected with that paper, and His hand was against them, and although they might appear to prosper for a time, and some honest ones be deceived, yet truth would eventually triumph, and every honest soul would break away from the deception which had held them, and come out clear from the influence of these wicked men; as God's hand was against them, they must go down. LS 155.2"
Both passages contrast truth and falsehood. EGW mentions that truth will eventually triumph over deception, while Proverbs 12:19 states that the lip of truth is established forever, but a lying tongue is but for a moment. The connection is based on the enduring nature of truth versus the fleeting nature of lies.
Great was the indignation of the Israelites as they learned the deception that had been practiced upon them. And this was heightened when, after three days’ journey, they reached the cities of the Gibeonites, near the center of the land. “All the congregation murmured against the princes;” but the latter refused to break the treaty, though secured by fraud, because they had “sworn unto them by the Lord God of Israel.” “And the children of Israel smote them not.” The Gibeonites had pledged themselves to renounce idolatry, and accept the worship of Jehovah; and the preservation of their lives was not a violation of God's command to destroy the idolatrous Canaanites. Hence the Hebrews had not by their oath pledged themselves to commit sin. And though the oath had been secured by deception, it was not to be disregarded. The obligation to which one's word is pledged—if it do not bind him to perform a wrong act—should be held sacred. No consideration of gain, of revenge, or of self-interest …
Ellen White directly references Proverbs 12:22 in this passage.
"False speaking in any matter, every attempt or purpose to deceive our neighbor, is here included. An intention to deceive is what constitutes falsehood. By a glance of the eye, a motion of the hand, an expression of the countenance, a falsehood may be told as effectually as by words. All intentional overstatement, every hint or insinuation calculated to convey an erroneous or exaggerated impression, even the statement of facts in such a manner as to mislead, is falsehood. This precept forbids every effort to injure our neighbor's reputation by misrepresentation or evil surmising, by slander or tale bearing. Even the intentional suppression of truth, by which injury may result to others, is a violation of the ninth commandment. PP 309.3"
The EGW passage directly expands on the principle of truthfulness and condemns various forms of deception, which aligns with Proverbs 12:22's condemnation of lying lips.
"but if he has a reputation for straightforward honesty, he will gain the confidence of others. The love of truth, the dependence and confidence which men can place in him, will remove or overbear objectionable features in his character. Trustworthiness in your place and calling, a willingness to deny self for the purpose of benefiting others, will bring peace of mind and the favor of God. 4T 353.3"
EGW's emphasis on honesty, trustworthiness, and the benefits they bring aligns with the sentiment expressed in Proverbs 12:22, which contrasts lying lips with those who deal truthfully.
"God's word condemns also the use of those meaningless phrases and expletives that border on profanity. It condemns the deceptive compliments, the evasions of truth, the exaggerations, the misrepresentations in trade, that are current in society and in the business world. “Let your speech be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: and whatsoever is more than these is of the evil one.” Matthew 5:37 , R.V. Ed 236.1"
Both passages deal with truthfulness and the condemnation of lying. EGW's statement about misrepresentations in trade aligns with Proverbs' condemnation of lying lips.
"The greatest want of the world is the want of men—men who will not be bought or sold, men who in their inmost souls are true and honest, men who do not fear to call sin by its right name, men whose conscience is as true to duty as the needle to the pole, men who will stand for the right though the heavens fall. Ed 57.3"
Both passages emphasize truthfulness and honesty. While the EGW passage is broader, Proverbs 12:22 aligns with the concept of men who are true and honest in their inmost souls.
"strengthened and encouraged by little attentions that cost only a loving effort. To such the strong, helpful grasp of the hand by a true friend is worth more than gold or silver. Words of kindness are as welcome as the smile of angels. MH 158.3"
Both passages highlight the positive impact of kind words on a person's emotional state. The EGW passage expands on this by including other acts of kindness, but the core idea is present in both.
"Friendly Sympathy and Counsel I now confided all my sorrows and perplexities to my mother. She tenderly sympathized with and encouraged me, advising me to go for counsel to Elder Stockman, who then preached the advent doctrine in Portland. I had great confidence in him, for he was a devoted servant of Christ. Upon hearing my story, he placed his hand affectionately upon my head, saying with tears in his eyes: “Ellen, you are only a child. Yours is a most singular experience for one of your tender age. Jesus must be preparing you for some special work.” LS 36"
Both passages deal with the comfort and encouragement received during times of sorrow. The proverb speaks of a 'good word' bringing gladness, while the EGW passage describes the comfort and counsel received from her mother and Elder Stockman.