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# What God Desires Out of Marriage God's desire for marriage centers on **mutual blessing, spiritual growth, and reflecting His love**. Ellen White taught that "God made from the man a woman, to be a companion and helpmeet for him, to be one with him, to cheer, encourage, and bless him, and he in his turn to be her strong helper" (10MR 203.2). This reveals that marriage is fundamentally about partnership where both husband and wife fulfill complementary roles in supporting and completing one another. The purpose extends beyond mere companionship to character development and spiritual refinement. Ellen White explained that those who "enter into matrimonial relations with a holy purpose—the husband to obtain the pure affections of a woman's heart, the wife to soften and improve her husband's character and give it completeness—fulfill God's purpose for them" (10MR 203.2). This shows that God designed marriage as a refining process where each partner helps the other grow in grace and Christlikeness. God also desires marriage to be a sacred symbol of Christ's relationship with His people. "In both the Old and the New Testament the marriage relation is employed to represent the tender and sacred union that exists between Christ and His people, the redeemed ones whom He has purchased at the cost of Calvary" (MB 64.1). This elevates marriage beyond a human contract to a divine illustration of redemptive love. The atmosphere God desires in marriage is one of perfect love and harmony. "God has ordained that there should be perfect love and perfect harmony between those who enter into marriage relation" (10MR 202.2). Furthermore, "God wants the home to be the happiest place on earth, the very symbol of the home in heaven" (2SAT 270.4), showing that He intends marriage to create an environment of joy, peace, and mutual support that reflects heavenly principles. Ellen White emphasized that marriage should never be entered "in a spirit of selfishness" (LYL 40.2), but rather with careful prayer and seeking divine counsel. The instruction given in Scripture should be carefully consideredand the step taken "with an earnest desire to conform to the directions given in the Scripture" (LYL 40.2). This reveals that God desires marriages founded on His Word and entered into with reverence for His design. --- 💡 **You might also want to explore:** • What counsel did Ellen White give about choosing a marriage partner? • How did she describe the role of Christ in a Christian marriage? • What practical advice did she offer for maintaining harmony in the home? --- 📚 **thousands of passages found** containing these search terms — [Explore in Full-Text Search](/advanced-search?q=What+does+god+desire+out+of+marriage)