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True empathy and sympathy are not merely natural traits but are qualities that must be intentionally cultivated by those who seek to follow the example of Christ. The Savior’s own heart was deeply moved by the various miseries of fallen humanity, and His followers are called to replace any indifference toward human suffering with a proactive and lively interest in the well-being of others (CH 501). This compassionate approach is particularly essential when ministering to the vulnerable, such as the sick, the dying, the orphaned, and the widowed (GW92 403.3). The exercise of Christlike sympathy serves as a powerful tool for the gospel, acting as a "heavenly balm" that can reach the heart once physical suffering has been addressed (CH 34.2).

This type of empathy should not be reserved only for those who seem perfect or faultless; rather, it must extend to those who are struggling, tempted, and frequently overcome by their faults (WM 88.2). By being touched with the feeling of others' infirmities, believers reflect the character of their merciful High Priest (WM 26.1). The desire for love and sympathy is a fundamental human need implanted by God, evidenced by Christ’s own longing for companionship during His agony in Gethsemane (LP 309.2).

When human sympathy is sanctified by the Spirit of Jesus, it becomes a productive force for good that benefits both the receiver and the giver (BEcho December 1, 1886, par. 6). Such a spirit of tenderness and solicitude, expressed through one's looks and tone of voice, possesses a unique power to open closed hearts and win souls to the truth (MMis June 1, 1891, par. 9). While genuine sympathy for the woes of humanity is described as a rare quality, it remains a vital necessity in every branch of God's work (ChS 232).

A simple and delicate expression of this Christlike attribute can penetrate the darkness that often surrounds a soul, providing the specific touch needed to bring comfort and hope (9T 30.1).

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To truly feel with others is a divine requirement that must be written upon the conscience. This level of empathy is not a natural inclination for many, but a character trait that must be intentionally cultivated to replace indifference toward human suffering (6T 262.1). When individuals focus solely on their own needs and fail to bear the burdens of those around them, they experience a poverty of soul and become a tax upon the patience of others (2T 463.2). Conversely, the act of bestowing benefits and privileges to relieve the necessities of others actually facilitates the culture of one's own mind and heart (6T 262.1).

The foundation for this deep connection with humanity is found in the example of the Savior, whose tender sympathies were constantly aroused by the miseries of the fallen race (CH 501). To follow Him, one must move beyond a cold or reserved temperament and develop a lively interest in the afflictions of the widow, the orphan, and the sick (GW92 403.3). This Christlike sympathy is not to be limited to those who appear faultless; it must extend specifically to those who are struggling, discouraged, and frequently overtaken by sin (WM 88.2).

By recognizing that all people possess similar passions, weaknesses, and temptations, believers can deal with their fellow mortals with the same kindly compassion they desire for themselves (15MR 126.4). The desire for this mutual sympathy was implanted in the human heart by God and was even expressed by Christ during His agony in Gethsemane (LP 309.2). When a person's heart is softened and subdued by the work of the Holy Spirit, they will no longer manifest a harsh or denunciatory spirit toward others (5T 649.2).

Instead, this communion with Christ produces a visible change, manifesting as tenderness in one's looks and tones of voice (MMis June 1, 1891, par. 9). Such a spirit of solicitude and love becomes a powerful tool for the gospel, opening hearts to receive heavenly truths once physical and emotional suffering have been addressed.

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The experience of Christ in Gethsemane reveals that even the most spiritually resilient individuals require human support and companionship during times of intense trial. As the Savior approached the garden, His disciples observed a profound change in His demeanor, noting a level of sadness and physical instability they had never witnessed before (PrT August 11, 1892, par. 1). By choosing to take Peter, James, and John with Him into the depths of the garden, Christ demonstrated that human nature, even when sinless, instinctively yearns for the presence and sympathy of others when facing a "fiery ordeal" (PH169 5.3). This longing for human support was expressed through His specific request for the disciples to tarry and watch with Him during His hour of "overpowering anguish" (PH169 5.3).

Although He was the Son of God, His identification with suffering humanity meant that He felt the sting of loneliness and the weight of His burdens more keenly when those closest to Him failed to provide the vigilance He requested (PH151 15.2). His repeated return to the sleeping disciples highlights a deeply human need for the comfort of shared experience and the strength that comes from mutual watchfulness (BTS September 1, 1915, par. 1). Furthermore, Christ’s example in the garden serves as a lesson that no one is intended to face the powers of darkness in total isolation. While He ultimately had to tread the winepress alone to achieve man's salvation, His initial desire for the disciples to pray and watch illustrates that human support is a vital component of spiritual endurance (PH151 15.2).

By witnessing His "awful anguish," the disciples were meant to learn the necessity of leaning on one another and on divine strength to be "braced for duty and prepared for trial" (Pr 19.1).

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