Ellen White addressed the concept of intermarriage in two primary contexts: the marriage between believers and unbelievers, and the marriage between individuals of different races. Regarding spiritual unity, she stated that "The Lord expressly has forbidden His people to marry with unbelievers" (
LYL 84.1), while regarding racial intermarriage, she advised that "this step should not be taken; for it is sure to create controversy and confusion" (
2SM 344). In her writings, Ellen White emphasized that spiritual compatibility is the foundation of a successful marriage. She taught that "The happiness and prosperity of the married life depend upon the unity of the parties" (
1TT 577.3). She warned that when a believer unites with an unbeliever, they are "unequally yoked together" (
CCh 120.3), which often leads the believer to "sell his religious principles for the poor companionship of one who has no connection with heaven" (
1TT 577.3).
The primary concern was that such a union would "turn away thy son from following Me" (
1TT 577.3), as seen in the biblical example of Solomon. Regarding intermarriage between the white and black races, Ellen White provided specific counsel based on the social conditions of her time. She stated that "No encouragement to marriages of this character should be given among our people" (
2SM 344). Her reasoning included the "prejudice that exists" (
PCO 89.1) and the concern that such unions would entail "upon their offspring difficulties their children should not be obliged to carry" (
PCO 89.1). She believed that such marriages could "close the door" to missionary work for the colored race by creating unnecessary social friction (
PCO 89.1).
For those considering marriage, she urged a careful self-examination of the potential union's impact on their spiritual life. She suggested asking, "Will this union help me heavenward? will it increase my love for God? and will it enlarge my sphere of usefulness in this life?" (
PH048 24.3). She even advised that it is better, far better, break the engagement before marriage than separate afterwardif the union is found to be inharmonious or spiritually detrimental (
PH048 24.3). In summary, Ellen White’s counsel focused on preserving the spiritual integrity of the believer and avoiding social complications that would hinder the progress of the gospel. She maintained that "God's sanction is not given to unions which He has expressly forbidden" (
CCh 120.3), urging believers to seek partners who love God and keep His commandments. --- 💡 **You might also want to explore:**
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