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Ellen White emphasizes that true beauty is found in simplicity and the cultivation of a Christlike character rather than in outward display. She argues that female loveliness is best highlighted by a simple style of dress, noting that even artistic representations of angels do not include gaudy jewelry or towering feathers (HR November 1, 1871, par. 15). For the believer, abstaining from the display of jewelry and ornaments of every kind is considered a matter of Christian duty and a reflection of one's faith (CG 423.4). The focus of the Christian should be on an "imperishable ornament" that does not fade with time: a meek and lowly spirit (4T 643.5).

White suggests that those who spend excessive time at the mirror or the toilet are often neglecting the development of their intellect and soul (CH 601). Instead of seeking golden ornaments for the exterior, she encourages an earnest effort to obtain wisdom, which she values far above gold or rubies (1TT 597.5). For the youth specifically, the use of gold, lace, or "artificials" for display is described as a sign of a proud heart and a weak mind (3T 376.2).

She teaches that a plain and unpretending appearance is the best way to let one's light shine, as it demonstrates that the individual places a higher value on eternal things than on the fleeting fashions of the world (3T 376.2). Ultimately, she contrasts the low value of gold and pearls with the supreme loveliness found in the character of Christ (CCh 181.3).

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Ellen White addresses the use of the wedding ring by emphasizing that the true bond of a Christian marriage is found in character rather than in outward signs. She argues that for those in certain regions, such as America, the custom of wearing a marriage ring is not an obligatory practice and should be viewed as unnecessary (TM 180). Instead of a physical circlet of gold, she encourages believers to possess a "golden link" that connects the soul to Christ, manifested through godliness, meekness, and a holy character (SpTA03). The concern regarding the wedding ring is often linked to a broader trend of conforming to worldly fashions and customs. White expresses deep concern over a "leavening process" where believers feel pressured to adopt such ornaments to avoid social remarks or to increase their influence (TM 180).

She maintains that a Christian's influence is not increased by such displays but is instead revealed through Christlike actions, patience, and a sympathetic heart (SpTA03). Furthermore, she notes that the presence of a ring is not actual evidence of one's faithfulness to their marriage vows (TM 180). While she discourages the practice where it is not required, she also provides a balanced perspective for those in different cultural contexts. In countries where the custom of wearing a wedding ring is considered imperative or mandatory, she states that there is no burden to condemn those who wear it conscientiously (TM 180).

However, even in these instances, she cautions missionaries against believing that the ring itself adds any value to their spiritual authority or effectiveness (SpTA03). Ultimately, the focus remains on the "imperishable ornament" of a meek and lowly spirit, which is of far greater value than any golden ornament for the exterior (4T 643.5). She suggests that resources should not be spent on gold to testify to a marriage when the money could be used more effectively and the soul could be adorned with wisdom (CG 423.4).

The goal for every believer is to be fitted with the "wedding garment" of Christ's righteousness, preparing for the eternal marriage supper (2MCP 660.2).

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