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The duty of children toward their parents does not cease simply because they have reached adulthood. Even after individuals are of age, they are still required to show respect and provide for the comfort of their parents (1T 217.2). Growing older does not mean that a person has outgrown their moral obligations or the specific commandment to honor their father and mother. Adult children are encouraged to continue seeking and listening to the counsel of godly parents (T06 14.1). In an era where respect for the aged is often dismissed as old-fashioned, maintaining this honor is identified as a significant duty, while the widespread disobedience and disrespect seen in the world today is viewed as a sign of the end times (1TT 76.1).

However, there is a clear boundary regarding the nature of this obedience. The requirement for children to obey their parents remains in force only as long as the parents' requests are in harmony with the commandments of God (18MR 122.2). If a parent requires something that contradicts divine law, the individual must prioritize obedience to God over obedience to their parents (18MR 122.2). Ultimately, the relationship between parents and children is governed by rules intended for the benefit of both, emphasizing that children should not be so indulged that they ignore the advice of their parents (19MR 86.1).

This principle of respect and care for parents is a lifelong commitment that reflects one's broader spiritual condition and adherence to the promises of God (15MR 292.3).

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