The experience of being wounded within a religious community is a reality that can deeply affect one's spiritual strength and vitality. When a faultfinding and accusing spirit prevails among believers, the natural "bowels of compassion" and love for one another begin to disappear (1T 164.2). This environment often leads to a focus on the perceived wrongs of others, magnifying them until the noble feelings of the soul are withered and the church loses its spiritual power (1T 164.2). Internal strife and public quarreling among church members create a significant barrier to the progress of the gospel. When leading elements in a congregation engage in disputes over status or personal grievances, it brings disgrace upon Christianity and discourages those outside the faith from seeking fellowship (EA 47.7).
Such unchristlike behavior suggests a lack of dependence on God and can even lead to systematic efforts to hurt the influence of others within the community (12MR 341.2). The personal toll of "church hurt" can be profound, leading to feelings of anguish, depression, and a dread of associating with the congregation for fear of further wounding (T13 16.2). In such times, it is essential to seek a resolution by meeting reports and charges directly with experienced and balanced individuals (T13 16.2).
Rather than dwelling on trifles or the "sparks of their own kindling," believers are encouraged to elevate their minds to eternal themes and the precious promises of the Bible to find healing and comfort (1T 164.2) (EA 47.7).
Ellen Chat