# What is a Friend According to Ellen White?
Ellen White addressed the concept of friendship from both human and divine perspectives, with Jesus Christ as the ultimate model of true friendship.
## Jesus Christ: Our Best Friend
Ellen White emphasized that Jesus should be regarded as our closest companion:
> **"You are to receive the precious Saviour as your very best friend, and honour Him by doing His will."** (
TSA 59.4)
She further counseled believers to recognize Christ's unique role in their lives:
> **"Take time to study the Bible, the Book of books... it is essential that you counsel with Jesus, your best friend."** (
DG 78.4)
This friendship with Christ is characterized by His unwavering loyalty and constant presence:
He is a Friend that will never leave thee, never betray thee. He is thy refuge. No storm or tempest can move thee. (1888 311.1)
## The Nature of Human Friendship
Ellen White also provided insight into human friendship, noting its fragility when not grounded in spiritual principles. She observed that human bonds can be broken when personal passions and opinions take precedence:
> **"All this passed through my mind like a flash of lightning and I was sensible how little trust or dependence could be put in the friendship of men when human thoughts and human passions bear sway."** (
12MR 16.2)
She noted that even close relationships can be severed over differences in biblical interpretation, revealing the conditional nature of human friendship compared to divine friendship.
## Characteristics of True Friends
According to Ellen White, genuine friends demonstrate specific qualities:
> **"A man that hath friends must show himself friendly."** (
Ed 136.3)
True friends are those who encourage spiritual growth and righteousness:
> **"Those who valiantly take their position on the right side, who encourage submission to God's revealed will and strengthen others in their efforts to put away their wrong-doings, are the true friends of the Lord."** (
4T 181.1)
In summary, Ellen White taught that while human friendship has value, Jesus Christ represents the perfect friend—one who never betrays, always supports, and provides refuge in every circumstance. True human friendship is characterized by encouraging others toward righteousness and submission to God's will.
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