Ellen Chat Conversation

El manejo de la inmoralidad sexual dentro de la iglesia requiere una acción firme y decidida, ya que tratar estos asuntos con excesiva tolerancia puede llevar a los involucrados a considerar su falta como algo de poca importancia. Cuando se permite que la impureza permanezca sin la debida corrección, existe el riesgo de que la apariencia de piedad oculte un carácter no santificado, lo cual debilita la integridad espiritual de toda la comunidad (TM 426). Es imperativo que la iglesia mantenga un estándar de pureza para evitar que las prácticas no santas corrompan a la congregación. La falta de una acción correctiva ante la conducta desordenada y la intimidad ilícita pone en peligro la relación de la iglesia con Dios, pudiendo convertirla en un lugar donde habitan influencias espirituales negativas en lugar de la santidad divina (21MR 380.1). La disciplina no solo busca la restauración del individuo, sino también la protección de otros jóvenes que podrían ser influenciados por malos ejemplos. A menudo, la familiaridad inapropiada y las conversaciones triviales nublan el juicio moral, llevando a los jóvenes a ignorar la ley de Dios y a participar en conductas que degradan su dignidad y su experiencia religiosa (DG 151.1) (18MR 296.2).

Finalmente, se debe ejercer un discernimiento espiritual agudo para no ignorar las señales de peligro en las relaciones sociales. Los líderes y miembros deben estar atentos para poner límites claros, pues el descuido en vigilar estos puntos permite que la iniquidad se practique incluso entre aquellos que profesan seguir la verdad, lo cual requiere una separación clara de las costumbres mundanas (PH167 34.1).

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The process of church discipline is a necessary, though often difficult, aspect of ministry that must be conducted with a deep sense of order and divine authority. It is not a task to be neglected or spoken of lightly, as Christ Himself provided the authority for the church to separate from its fellowship those who prove unworthy and bring dishonor to the cause of God (17MR 164). This "gospel order" is essential because, just as there is order in heaven, there must be a structured government within the church on earth to prevent the confusion and reproach that arise when individuals act without wisdom or proper judgment (ExV54 15). In every case of dealing with erring members, the primary instruction to follow is the rule laid down by the Saviour in the eighteenth chapter of Matthew (GW 498) (CCh 255).

This process requires ministers and members to be vigilant and well-balanced, meeting difficulties with a character established in truth rather than being intimidated by the disagreeable nature of the work (PaM 210.3). While discipline is a firm requirement, it must always be balanced with the understanding that the church functions like a school where members are learning to form characters for heaven (7T 264.1) (CCh 258.4). The ultimate goal of discipline is never merely to punish, but to restore the individual to purity and intelligence through cooperation with Christ (MM 209.3).

There is a danger when church members act as harsh judges rather than loving shepherds, failing to consider the immense value of the soul (NPUGleaner January 29, 1908, par. 4). True restoration requires a spirit of meekness and a "tender compassion" that seeks to win the erring back, recognizing that the love of Christ is a more powerful tool for reformation than any other influence (NPUGleaner January 29, 1908, par. 6). Even when an offense is severe, the door to restoration remains open if the individual demonstrates genuine repentance by confessing and forsaking their sin. In such cases, the church is instructed to forgive and welcome the person back into the fold, treating them with the same kindness they would desire for themselves (GW 501.3).

This work of seeking the lost continues even if the person remains outside the church, as the servants of God are called to an untiring interest in the salvation of every soul (GW 501.3) (AUGleaner January 8, 1902, par. 17).

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