Ellen G. White's writings discourage the wearing of engagement rings and similar jewelry. She expresses concern that such adornments, even if plain, are unnecessary and can have a negative spiritual influence by promoting vanity and worldliness. Instead, she encourages believers to focus on modesty and the inward adornment of character, emphasizing the importance of a meek and humble spirit over outward displays. While she addresses the seriousness of marriage and engagement, her main focus is on the spiritual and moral aspects of these relationships, rather than the exchange of rings.
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References:
- White, E. G. (1872). Testimonies for the Church, Vol. 1, p. 20.2.
- White, E. G. (1880). Life Sketches of James and Ellen White (1880), p. 146.1.
- White, E. G. (1888). Life Sketches of James and Ellen White (1888), p. 146.1.
- White, E. G. (1881). Testimonies for the Church, Vol. 4, pp. 630.1, 643.5, 506.3.
- White, E. G. (1913). Counsels to Teachers, Parents, and Students, p. 344.3.