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Ellen White teaches that while physical correction may sometimes be necessary, it should always be a last resort. She explains that the "rod" should only be used when all other milder measures have failed to produce the desired result (CG 250.2). The primary goal of such discipline is not to inflict pain, but to bring a child to their senses and demonstrate that they do not hold the ultimate lines of control in the home (CT 116). A central theme in her counsel is the emotional state of the parent during discipline. She strongly warns against administering any form of punishment while in a fit of passion or anger, noting that parents who act out of temper are themselves in need of correction (PCP 28).

When discipline is handled with impatience or severity, it often fails to achieve any good; instead, it can harden a child's heart, create further rebellion, and alienate them from their parents (1TT 148). True discipline must be administered in a spirit of love and with the goal of restoration. She emphasizes that the atmosphere of the home should reflect the peace of heaven, where gentleness is the ruling principle (PCP 28). In some cases, a single instance of firm but loving correction may be sufficient for a lifetime, provided it is done with the right motive and under the right conditions (CG 250.2).

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